Matthew 19 Months: Crys when with Daddy

This last weekend was less than perfect, Matthew appeared quite Ill from the beginning. After a long sleep from the Friday to the Saturday morning Matthew had quite a build up of mucus on his chest.
For breakfast he ate the usual porridge and yogurt and for lunch a pack of apple chunks and more fruit. He quickly became starry eyed and vomited in very large volume. This scared him, it was quite un expected as it was for his shocked and pale faced daddy.

The rest of the weekend went smoothly, we went for a drive and some shopping on Sunday, however due to the weather we couldn’t visit too many out door locations.
The drive to Coventry went smoothly, we left on time and beat any traffic, excellent conditions considering it is bank holiday Monday.
The real disappointment however came when he burst in to tears after seeing his mum again. While this is touching, I couldn’t help feel very unwanted and really quite emotional. Matthew refused to wave goodbye or accept any hugs / kisses from me.
I realise no problem actually exists however it is hard not to speculate and ponder on negativity when your child, no matter how young and un educated in the adult emotional system rejects you.

I really look forward to our next weekend, the weather is becoming much more reliable now, we can visit far more interesting and fun places.
On a brighter note, the physical changes in Matthew are uncanny. He is a little boy now and responds to questions with a nod or a shake of the head.

Ask him if he is hungry, Matthew will nod a very agreeable Yes.

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New word. Bubbles!!

Matthew with his mum while she blows bubbles Matthew gets excited and shouts


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Mothers Day – A Tribute

Today is mothers day, the one day of the year we all celebrate and give thanks to those who gave us life!
I wanted to tell you all a little about my mother “Lynda”.

My mother was born Lynda Jane Barton on 16/06/67, she often jokes her life was doomed from the start based on her date of birth! Today my mother is an inspiration to hundreds of people in her life, spending all of her time helping those in the drug and alcohol rehabilitation system, including AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) & NA (Narcotics Anonymous).
However growing up was no easy path. Addicted to heroin herself from the age of 16 and with a young son (thats me) and pregnant with her second child (My brother Christopher), my mum’s daily routine consisted of little other than getting high and doing anything required in order to raise the funds to buy the drugs.

My mother story is absolutely amazing and very unique. She was lucky to survive her addiction and today is clean many years and helps people who are yet to beat the demon on a daily basis.

People often ask me, why doesn’t my mother write a book? i used to often wonder why myself, last year my Brother Christopher (a radio documentary creator for RTE), told our story in audio form which was aired on national radio and enjoyed by millions.
“8 Years On” has since won lots of awards and received incredible recognition and i invite all those that regularly read my blog to take the time to listen.

You can listen to 8 Years On Here i hope you enjoy and take something positive.

Happy Mothers Day Mum, Thank you for life.

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Poland Trip – Getting Ready

I leave for Poznan, Poland in a few hours and wanted to let everyone know how it went last weekend in Blackpool.

TERRIBLE!!! is the short answer.

I wont bore you with a bad beat story, you’ve heard them all before. In short i played m perfect game, slowly built up a solid chip stack of 40,000 before the break and some idiot mis read his hand thinking he had trip 5′s on a A5J board.
I’m holding AJ and it turns out he calls my All in with pocket 3′s. I don’t need to tell you what arrived on the river to give me the dirtiest bad beat in a long time? Yes, 3.

On a lighter note, i must pay tribute and congratulations to the winner of the GUKPT Walsall, Colin McTaggart.

Colin Takes Down GUKPT Walsall

Colin Takes Down GUKPT Walsall

This is Colin’s first major win and to top things off he free rolled in to the event via A World of Poker members website. Colin takes home £57,700 for the triumph and i look forward to seeing him at the cash table again soon.

What am i doing in Poland?

Well i’m glad you asked! Plenty of laughter and bonding with some of my fantastic friends without the single mention of Poker. I always look forward to our twice annual european trip away, i’m the only poker player and nobody has any interest in the venues or events i play. So long as im holding some form of alcoholic drink or infact paying for such items we all get along very well.

Speak when i get back xxx

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2010 a new year, a new “Outlook”

Over the past few days i have been concentrating on researching new applications for the VIT Live product range. The horrid weather outside didn’t put me off taking advantage of working from my quiet office at home, i regularly looked out the window wishing the snow would clear, giving me the opportunity to visit our offices, staff and some customers, but my finger crossing didn’t amount to any good, the snow continued to drop, disqualifying any chance of moving from my position.

No fear, my research has produced some very interesting results. For some time now our regular customer poll results suggested a requirement to reduce long term maintenance costs of on site hardware like servers, PC’s and network devices more than any other item.

While more than 64% of our users are Thin Client active (use Dumb Terminals connected to Terminal Servers), the consensus is we should be doing even more to reduce long term spending on annual service and replacement costs.

In 2010 our management team will be announcing a list of incentives which will mean further developing our products to reduce and in some cases eliminate the requirement of a powerful central server. Already i can hear you getting excited ;)

Of course any changes to our products that removes or reduces the amount of hardware required to run, means plenty of more spare cash going straight back to you, the customer.
So why are we so keen to take money away from our shareholders pockets and back to you?

Well frankly it makes sound business sense! For every server we have at a customer location, a dedicated first line support engineer is also required. Also our licensing overheads increase which in turn increases your over annual agreement.

While it is too early to announce exactly what changes we will make this year, i can assure all customers we are doing everything we can to continue our brand of putting the user needs first. As we go forward in to this unsteady financial environment, now is the time to be using our talented in house technicians to develop ways of changing the way our products work, while maintaining solid familiarity and without any need for training or interface changes.

I can however announce we will be looking first at alternative, energy efficient methods of delivering email. (Teaser)!

I am so excited about 2010, studies suggest our climate is steadily improving and the technology sector held its own even when the chips were down. A toast to 2010! a happy new year to you all.

Dearg O’Bartuin
Founder & Project Director

VIT Live

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Santa Float is success for christmas

It’s been a while since my last update for Southport & Woodvale Round Table.

Too much has happened to update everything but the biggest event to note is our very successful Christmas 2009 Santa float.
All proceeds collected go to local charities.

I had a great time playing Santa, although the public may question how much weight he has lost lately (sorry i did try to pad my suit out as much as possible!).

The picture below was taken by local press agency Southport GB, you can read public comments by visiting the news article: http://www.southportforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=50417253

Playing santa for charity

Playing santa for charity

Thank you to all those that donated. 75 150 Christmas food hampers have been provided (with thanks to Tesco), we will be distributing these over the holiday period.

Hope your all well,

xx

EDIT:

Below are some additional pictures showing other members packing the food parcels. I couldn’t attend this day but a massive thank you to all members especially George Elland who is the master mind organiser behind this years charity distribution.

Photographs courtesy and copyright www.SouthportGB.gov.uk

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Apple mighty mouse track ball no longer works?

I discovered a weird problem with my Apple mighty mouse this morning. The scroll wheel no longer worked horizontally or vertically.

I searched online to try find a solution but to no avail. The solution seems so simple its almost hard to believe. Simply pickup a clean piece of paper, turn the Mighty mouse upside down and rub the track ball up, down, left and right until it starts to work again.

TIP. do this while looking at a website that requires scrolling so you can see the fix immediately.

Nice apple!

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Charity Donation approved and received – Ella & Sam

In hospital

In hospital

Some time ago, Southport & Woodvale 43 round table received a heart felt charity request from a local resident informing us of two very sick children Ella & Sam (aged 7 and 5) Wright.

Both children suffer from Duncan’s syndrome which affects only 100 families world wide. Medical science suggests this illness affects boys only but Ella is one of only two girls worldwide affected by this condition. Lie expectancy, without bone marrow transplant is about 10-15 years.

You can read more about this case here

The family wanted to treat both children to a fun family day out to Lego Land, Alton Towers or another popular destination.

At our last Round Table meeting, we easily agreed this was a case that was perfectly eligible for our cause. We all decided to donate £500 toward the funding of the family day out.
This morning i had a very happy phone call from a close friend of the family thanking Round Table Southport for our generous contribution and we hope to have further updates and pictures showing us how much of a good time they have had.

Its a good day for Southport Woodvale 43 Round Table, our thoughts and best wishes are with the Wright family.

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DJ AM: New York, New York

Let me start with a quote:
“New york, new york. Big city of dreams, but everything in new york aint always what it seems.” 2:57 PM Aug 25th

These are the last words posted on the twitter account of Adam Michael Goldstein, a.k.a DJ AM.

I woke up this morning and checked my Twitter trends. I noticed #1 was “RIP DJ AM”, a quick google search took me to Wikipedia mobile http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adam_Goldstein?wasRedirected=true where I quickly gained a better understanding of whom this guy was.

Now personally I’m in no way affected by the sudden and tragic death of this man, however it did make me wonder about the power of Twitter especially after death.
Read his last update above. Are these the words of a man who would later be found dead from drug abuse? Is it possible he was high when sending this tweet? Again it’s irrelevent in real terms, but interesting how Twitter could be used by law enforcment to trace the where abouts of victims, perpetrators, and even the followers associated to such accounts.
As for DJ AM, well he was found in his apartment and the police are not treating it suspiciously, so in this case his Twitter account will not provide anything interesting other than to his fans, family and friends.
However with the introduction of Geo Tagging, you can litterally pin point his wearabouts over a very long period of time.

Imagine OJ Simpson had a Twitter account?, what if Michael Jackson also used Twitter, and his private doctor was a follower. Now that would make for interesting Reading.

Tell me your views, comment below.
Ps. DJ AM twitter page is http://www.Twitter.com/DJ_AM

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Matthew’s first day at nursery

Today was Matthews first day at nursery (Busy Bees Southport).

I had him last night until this morning and although I personally felt very I’ll, the wonder of children is you instantly forget your own feelings and concentrate on theirs.

His mother collected him for his first day at Nursery around 9.30 am, you could see how excited even she was, wiping away any dirt on his face from breakfast, putting on his shoes and socks and combing his hair.
Nursery is he next major mile stone in Matthews fast and impressive development. I look forward to collecting him and hearing the feedback from the guys and girls that run the place.
He is already responding to his name, throwing the large ball accross the room, climbing and standing without any difficulty. At almost 11 months I can already see a bright and beautiful young boy.

His first day went very well, unfortunatly I didn’t witness this personally (the downside to parents seperating I suppose) but I did get this nice update from mum after the session.

“He’s done really well considering he hasn’t slept yet. He was too excited and playing earlier which stopped him from being tired but now its lunch and he’s not overly interested in food due to needing a kip. Tomorrow I will make sure he has a kip before hand / allow him to sleep at the nursery so they can see eating and sleeping habits properly. However they have commented at how happy he is and how they think I will have no troubles with matthew settling in to the new surroundings/ people. I’m really happy with this nursery and staff so far.

I’m a very proud father today!

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